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Transition From Recognize to Yearn Phase

1. Recognize Phase Recap (Last 3 Weeks)

  • The focus was on self-awareness by constantly asking:

    • “Why am I thinking or feeling this way?”

    • “What past experiences have shaped these emotions?”

  • Explored cognitive distortions and negativity bias, recognizing that most automatic thoughts are false or exaggerated.

  • Built the skill of questioning thoughts instead of accepting them at face value to break negative thinking patterns.

  • This skill is foundational and will be used for life to uncover deeper self-knowledge.

2. Introduction to the Yearn Phase

  • This phase is about imagining the ideal life without limitations—removing internal constraints from fear, doubt, or past failures.

  • The key question: “What would my ideal day look like?”

  • Participants will paint a mental picture of their best self, document it, and work towards making it real.

  • The purpose is to align daily actions with the person they truly want to be.

3. Transitioning into Strive & Elevate Phases

  • The Strive Phase answers: “What steps do I need to take to make my ideal life a reality?”

    • Focuses on planning, execution, and overcoming obstacles.

  • The Elevate Phase ensures long-term consistency:

    • Developing habits and systems to maintain the transformation.

4. Salah as the Core of a Purposeful Life

  • A key foundation built during the Recognize Phase was prioritizing Salah.

  • True success and fulfillment come from centering daily life around Salah, not fitting it in as an afterthought.

  • Ideal routine:

    • Isha in the masjid → Early bedtime → Wake up for Tahajjud & Fajr → Start day with focus & clarity.

    • The Barakah (blessing) of early morning worship leads to increased productivity, spiritual fulfillment, and success.

5. The Ultimate Vision – Writing a Life Worth Presenting to Allah

  • The Yearn Phase connects with a deep spiritual perspective:

    • Life is like writing a book that will be presented before Allah on the Day of Judgment.

    • The goal is to live a life we’d be proud to read in His presence.

    • Reference to Quranic verses about receiving one’s book in the right hand and celebrating a life well-lived.

Final Message

  • The journey is a continuous cycle of growth—Recognize, Yearn, Strive, and Elevate.

  • The next step is documenting and structuring the ideal life to work towards it actively.

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